We live in a world where everyone wants to please everybody, sadly it is not always the best thing to do. I am not talking about being unkind, I am talking about doing what protects you as an individual.
Many have family that always talks down on their goals, their vision. Yet, they continue to think they have to be around them. Why? Because of DNA? That is not a reason. I am not saying everyone will see your vision; in fact, most will not. However, not agreeing and fighting it are two different things. If they fight it the best thing to do is separate or limit time spent with them. Maybe you have friends that do the same thing. I hate to be the seer here; yea that rhymes, but if they fight you they are not your friends. Usually if you are trying to succeed and they are not you will not have to worry about it anyways, they will separate from you. I know this to be a fact as I have had it happen many times in my life. That is what makes friends and family different, family stays because they feel they are entitled to, friends come and go. My best advice for you today is the same thing Old Blue Eyes said; Frank Sinatra. “Let your success be your revenge.” I know I will have people come out of the “woodwork” once I get where I want to be, but that will be too late. If I cannot depend on you now as family, friends, or what have you, I will not depend on you then. You may see this as revenge, but it is not. It is straight good business sense. Why would I let someone into my work that was not there for me before? That would make me an idiot, and that I am not. In closing, watch what you let your mind dwell on and who puts thoughts there. Your mind is the greatest tool you have and you must guard it against filth. Would you let someone put trash on your plate and eat it anyways? Of course not. Let the same be said of your mind. -Sugar Shane-
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