Many people today cannot let go of yesterday. We have memories of course we do not want to forget; and many we cannot forget, but the past has to be left there.
We cannot blame the past for our todays. It is up to us to move past things and go on. Many think that because I quit dealing with a person that I am mad and holding a grudge. No, not the case. I have just decided to move on knowing I am wasting my time and no need to get on with my own life. I am number one and have to take care of myself or no one is taken care of, therefore, it is best to cut; for lack of a better word, stupidity out of my life. One thing you will never find me being is an enabler. I will help you if you want help and I will talk to you, but I will not be the guy you go to when you need me and not around any other time. That is why I give those people up. You have to come to the conclusion no matter how sad it may be that you cannot help or save everyone. Some people do not want saving, they enjoy the attention and do not truly want help. The best thing is let go of the hurt and quit Facebook posting all your troubles, no one truly wants to hear them, just being honest. We have our own troubles without hearing how you been done wrong and so and so left you, all the boo hoo stuff. I am sick of it. Suck it up, cupcake!!! It is life! Time to move on past them peoople, find new friends that benefit you and make your life a joy. The choice is yours.
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